As time passes, the spark and romance from a relationship may start to sour. While some of this is attributable to the passage of time, it is also true that many women do not feel as romantic or have the same feminine spark as they used to feel.
The truth is that the romance and spark are still within you. It just takes a different approach to coax it out. No matter your situation, you can always rekindle the feminine spark and expand your romance with your partner if you apply the proper techniques.
And in even better news, it does not take that long to start feeling young again without having to spend much in the way of money. So what follows are a few simple techniques to help regenerate that feminine spark within you.
Listen
One of the simplest and most overlooked techniques is simply listening to your partner. By showing concern about his life, you are helping the relationship to grow and prosper. We have two ears and one mouth for a reason. We need to listen twice as much as we talk. Your partner is the most precious gift you get to enjoy daily. Take time to listen and ask some simple questions to engage them in sharing their day with you. When you understand their stressors, victories, and concerns, you will be better able to remember the many facets that drew you to them in the first place.
You indeed have your issues, but never forget that your partner is facing his problems too. By taking your eyes off yourself, you can better work as a team in reconnecting and sparking the fire within you.
Touch
There is no question that physical contact plays a significant role in expressing your feelings toward your partner. Not necessarily refer to sexual contact, but more like a kiss, a hug, or a reassuring touch that puts you in direct contact with your significant other.
Generating more romantic feelings and interests doesn’t take too many touches. You need to be consistent and apply your touch when appropriate. For example, holding hands, a reassuring pat on the shoulder, and more can help fire up romantic interest.
Be Your Best Self
One of the most challenging aspects of any relationship is putting things into the proper perspective. Couples should indeed be themselves, but being your best self is where you shift the perspective to how your partner feels more than you.
This doesn’t mean you push aside issues affecting your life. But it does mean that when you interact with your significant other, you put your best face forward. After all, they have issues as well. So be honest, but be friendly, compassionate, and understanding. This will help the romantic angle and may solve other problems affecting your relationship.
Take Care of Yourself
When you feel comfortable about yourself, especially your physical self, that feminine spark will start to grow. You do not have to look like a fashion model. You should not be concerned with your appearance per se but your general health.
If you have put on one too many pounds, look to change your diet and engage in some exercise. Taking care of yourself means you are also taking care of your partner. You feel better about yourself, which helps build confidence in your partner.
It is true that couples who exercise, eat right, and work to reduce stress in their lives lead happier, more romantic lives. So, take some time to walk around the block and eat nutritious food to be your best self.
